What Kind of Adult Are We Helping Our Children Become?
In the busyness of school life, it is easy to focus on the results that we can measure: grades, reports, awards, and pathways. Yet a deeper and more important question sits quietly beneath all of this: what kind of adult are we helping our children become?
Long after lessons are forgotten, the habits, values, and character formed during childhood and adolescence remain. Each day, through countless small moments, staff are encouraging and guiding our students. Through these many interactions, students are learning how to treat others, how to respond to challenge, and how to persevere when things are difficult. They are learning whether integrity matters when no one is watching, whether kindness is a strength, and whether effort is worthwhile even when success is not immediate.
Scripture reminds us to take this long view of education: “Train up a child in the way they should go, and when they are old they will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). Education, then, is not only about preparing students for exams or careers, but about shaping the kind of people they will become.
The apostle Paul encourages us to focus on character when he writes, “Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things” (Philippians 4:8). These are the qualities we hope our students will carry with them into adulthood.
As a school community, in partnership with families, we seek to nurture young people to be more resilient, compassionate, humble, and courageous. Because we want them to become adults who use their gifts not only for personal success, but for the good of others. That is a goal worth striving for, every day.
Mark Hamilton
Head of Secondary