The Power of Gratitude
As the year draws to a close, many of us find ourselves reflecting on what has passed — the challenges faced, the milestones achieved, and the countless small moments that frame the life of a family. In these reflections, gratitude has a unique capacity to change how we nurture our children.
Gratitude is more than polite manners or saying thank you; it’s a way of seeing the world through the lens of God’s goodness. When we practise gratitude, we acknowledge that every good thing we have is a gift — not earned, but given by a loving Father. As the Apostle Paul reminds us, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).
In a culture that often measures success by possessions or achievements, gratitude draws our attention back to the Giver rather than the gift. It reminds our children — and ourselves — that God’s blessings are not always material. Sometimes they come through the lessons learned in struggle, the comfort of friendship, or the quiet peace of knowing we are loved by Him.
Psychologists now tell us what Scripture has long revealed: gratitude transforms our minds and hearts. It brings joy, strengthens relationships, and nurtures contentment. The psalmist wrote, “Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever” (Psalm 107:1). When our homes are filled with words of thanks — for the meal before us, for the laughter at the table, for friends to journey with — our families learn to live from a posture of praise rather than complaint.
As parents or carers, we have the privilege and responsibility to model this spirit for our children. Gratitude can be as simple as pausing to pray before school, expressing thanks for a teacher’s care, or noticing God’s handiwork in creation. When we show our children that thanksgiving is not an event but a daily rhythm, we help them grow hearts that rest in God’s goodness.
Let us reflect on the words of author Maya Angelou, who wrote:
“Let gratitude be the pillow upon which you kneel to say your nightly prayer. And let faith be the bridge you build to overcome evil and welcome good.”
May our homes be places where gratitude flows naturally — shaping our conversations, deepening our faith, and drawing our families ever closer to the heart of God.
Karen Bryant
Deputy Head of Secondary, Teaching and Learning